Seemed like a simple and easy enough challenge, 1 day without complaining. No listening to the news, that meant no radio, no TV, no headlines,...no talking politics (I welcomed that) What about interacting with people, when complaining would begin I would first try to just change the subject, if that failed I tried to point out a bright side, if that failed I interjected, humor if that failed, I'd voice my thoughts that no amount of complaining would change the past . I say that I will not be a participant in complaining and would explain my goal . Some would say Thank You, and we continue the conversation . Some would say oh, ok, at first they seemed to take it personal , then we just LET IT GO. Some would say:
I am not complaining I am just venting,
You are living in denial,
You are being selfish by not listening to me.
This lead me to question what is the "definition" of:
Complaining- to express grief, pain, or discontent ,
Venting- to relieve by means of a vent,
Denial-refusal to admit the truth or reality,
Realty-the quality or state of being real,
Selfish- concerned excessively or exclusively with oneself,
I realized that we all have our own dictionary and ways of handling life. By trying to NOT to complain I realized I was complaining... By trying to change directions of a conversation, I was surrendering and caught up in it. If I do not want to hear what I feel is complaining ...I have to just LET IT GO. These people were not holding me captive against my will. By setting my intentions to NOT COMPLAIN I was attracting "COMPLAINING". At best when I would try to change a subject or find a bright side or interject humor I would be pushing against trying to stop something... instead of just LET IT GO. So without further thought I will stop complaining and just LET IT GO.
Thursday, October 30, 2008
Tuesday, October 28, 2008
Thoughts Shared with Our Team
Some thoughts shared with in our TEAM...
When you play it too safe, you are taking the biggest risk of your life...Time is the only wealth we are given equally.
"In these tough times we have two choices: to stand on the sidelines in fear, or get in the game and make a difference." Tony Robbins
"Do what you do so well that they will want to see it again and bring their friends."
— Walt Disney
In some cultures the entire community will come together to do a rain dance during times of a drought? That is the results of TEAM WORK, where every one is focusing on one outcome of achieving a goal.
We are we are now in times of drought, this economic drought is being called "recession" and even a "depression"
We have choices we can FEAR the drought or have FAITH and dance...
In times of drought we can sit on the side FOCUSED in FEAR or we can DANCE in FAITH...
So what do you say TEAM...
WANNA DANCE!!!
Jim Dupre and Denise Barone 386.235.6864
When you play it too safe, you are taking the biggest risk of your life...Time is the only wealth we are given equally.
"In these tough times we have two choices: to stand on the sidelines in fear, or get in the game and make a difference." Tony Robbins
"Do what you do so well that they will want to see it again and bring their friends."
— Walt Disney
In some cultures the entire community will come together to do a rain dance during times of a drought? That is the results of TEAM WORK, where every one is focusing on one outcome of achieving a goal.
We are we are now in times of drought, this economic drought is being called "recession" and even a "depression"
We have choices we can FEAR the drought or have FAITH and dance...
In times of drought we can sit on the side FOCUSED in FEAR or we can DANCE in FAITH...
So what do you say TEAM...
WANNA DANCE!!!
Jim Dupre and Denise Barone 386.235.6864
Wednesday, October 22, 2008
Are You an Eagle or a Sparrow
In Network marketing, any other Home Based Business or any Business where you are the CEO, there is always an inherit risk. The risk is reduced by following a system: McDonalds’ has a system that you pay a hefty price to learn and you can still get fired if you don’t follow their system. The UPS store, Wendy’s, Merry Maids, ACE Hardware, Liberty Tax service, Subway, Jazzercise and the list goes on, all have their own system. Individuals that buy into these opportunities want independence and Financial Freedom. Are they Eagles or are they Sparrows? I will let you make the decision, perhaps they are smart Eagles that reduce their chance of failure or perhaps they are Sparrows and follow. One thought, these people still have to adhere to a time clock at least in the beginning and with a lot of sweat equity perhaps someday can enjoy their efforts.
True small business owner’s, the local plumber, electrician, dry cleaner, CPA/accounting firm are more representative of entrepreneurship but their Financial gains are generally still limited to their own continued efforts. They stop working and so does their income. Robert Kiyosaki discusses this in his book titled Rich Dad Poor Dad. Think about how the small business owner survives, usually a positive referral from a satisfied customer. This is the basis of a relationship and is passed on via a network. The independent small business owner is closer to an Eagle than a Sparrow.
Everyone Network Market’s in some way or another. Network marketing is developing relationships, receiving and asking for referrals. How many times has someone asked you, where’s good place to eat, is this a movie good, what’s the best way to get to down town, who’s your auto mechanic? You provide a free referral because of a relationship you have with the requesting party. The relationship could have existed 30 seconds or 30 years. In either case, the answer is usually the same. Each Network Marketing company has a system. When you compare each of them, the basics are always the same. Business’s are built on time tested philosophies and practice’s. The aging of America, specifically the Baby Boomer generation reaching retirement age has created many new market opportunities. The Health and Wellness Industry is producing one particular niche. The “Juice” market has exploded with offerings and home based business opportunities. Each week there is a new juice; the juice of the week has a different name, yet similar ingredients. Many discuss “ORAC” value, all natural ingredients and the reason nature provided us with this wonderful berry or fruit. Most of them are of value, why do people purchase different products. Could it be the same reason some drive Chevy’s while others drive Fords and still other Chrysler’s. The Baby Boomer’s want healthy aging and are more willing than previous generations to consider alternatives.
Back to Network Marketing, where Network marketing companies have systems and the sparrows follow the system, organizations realize growth. Sparrows are the foundation; foundations provide support that enables the company to become a sky scrapper. When The Eagle joins a Network Marketing company, understands the basics of the system, remember their all the same, and applies their own existing relationships coupled with their true Entrepreneur skills, the Network Marketing Company Soar’s.
True small business owner’s, the local plumber, electrician, dry cleaner, CPA/accounting firm are more representative of entrepreneurship but their Financial gains are generally still limited to their own continued efforts. They stop working and so does their income. Robert Kiyosaki discusses this in his book titled Rich Dad Poor Dad. Think about how the small business owner survives, usually a positive referral from a satisfied customer. This is the basis of a relationship and is passed on via a network. The independent small business owner is closer to an Eagle than a Sparrow.
Everyone Network Market’s in some way or another. Network marketing is developing relationships, receiving and asking for referrals. How many times has someone asked you, where’s good place to eat, is this a movie good, what’s the best way to get to down town, who’s your auto mechanic? You provide a free referral because of a relationship you have with the requesting party. The relationship could have existed 30 seconds or 30 years. In either case, the answer is usually the same. Each Network Marketing company has a system. When you compare each of them, the basics are always the same. Business’s are built on time tested philosophies and practice’s. The aging of America, specifically the Baby Boomer generation reaching retirement age has created many new market opportunities. The Health and Wellness Industry is producing one particular niche. The “Juice” market has exploded with offerings and home based business opportunities. Each week there is a new juice; the juice of the week has a different name, yet similar ingredients. Many discuss “ORAC” value, all natural ingredients and the reason nature provided us with this wonderful berry or fruit. Most of them are of value, why do people purchase different products. Could it be the same reason some drive Chevy’s while others drive Fords and still other Chrysler’s. The Baby Boomer’s want healthy aging and are more willing than previous generations to consider alternatives.
Back to Network Marketing, where Network marketing companies have systems and the sparrows follow the system, organizations realize growth. Sparrows are the foundation; foundations provide support that enables the company to become a sky scrapper. When The Eagle joins a Network Marketing company, understands the basics of the system, remember their all the same, and applies their own existing relationships coupled with their true Entrepreneur skills, the Network Marketing Company Soar’s.
Monday, October 20, 2008
Leaders Can Rise from any rank
Leaders Can Rise from any Rank.
We have been in network marketing since 1997 and still love network marketing ... Unlimited possibilities, in learning and earnings. Unlimited wisdom everywhere. A fellow team leader was sharing with us about a weekend training event, with the masters and we heard something and we are now a little wiser... this nugget came from someone who is new to network marketing. They were doing what they were told to do by a well meaning experienced up line, go to meetings and invite, invite , invite well for them it was not producing results. They tried for several months. Then they began to search out new avenues to expand and grow. After only a few weeks they got results, they found a system that worked for them. This strategy and logic came from their business background. We were reminded that... This is a business, if something is not making money and is costing you time. That is a clue. Change....freedom... and choice in network marketing is a freedom we sometimes over look and take for granted. We do not have to get it Ok’d or approved. In network marketing along with the Internet marketing ideas, mentors, team affiliates the possibilities are endless.
It is said that even if you’re on the right road, if you do not keep moving you will be run over. Sometimes we get stuck in a rut... a grave would be safer... difference between a rut, and a grave is ...a grave is only 6 ft deep a rut can get go on forever. I agree that a proven system, training program and structure of goals is the surest, quickest and best way to grow a business. You decide which system works best with you.
We have learned when the JOB market gets unsure many professionals and nonprofessionals look for ways to secure or improve their lifestyle. I have been hearing from Bankers, CEO’s, Business Owners, Investors and hourly employees there is NO Job Security, NO Company retirement plan, NO Social Security, NO depending on Wall Street, NO depending on the Corporate world and their 401 K can just disappear, NO depending on Uncle Sam, Stocks, Bonds, Real Estate.
They are searching for additional streams of income. Who has a few years or the money to go back to school to get a degree to increase chances of a promotion? That is where network marketing has its advantages. No degree required, no previous experience required, all you need is a WHY, an open mind, be teachable, coachable and a company that offers value.
This is what they are NOW saying....
There is a NEW Security Plan... Depending on "YOU" You are in control of your future... find like minded people and together build a future you can be sure of...Find a company that offers value with proven leaders, follow and live your WHY.
We still love NETWORK MARKETING...
Ask for a *FREE* Network Marketing Training Manual... Send request to
Info@Jimdenise.com, put training manual in the subject line.
Jim Dupre and Denise Barone 386.235.6864
We have been in network marketing since 1997 and still love network marketing ... Unlimited possibilities, in learning and earnings. Unlimited wisdom everywhere. A fellow team leader was sharing with us about a weekend training event, with the masters and we heard something and we are now a little wiser... this nugget came from someone who is new to network marketing. They were doing what they were told to do by a well meaning experienced up line, go to meetings and invite, invite , invite well for them it was not producing results. They tried for several months. Then they began to search out new avenues to expand and grow. After only a few weeks they got results, they found a system that worked for them. This strategy and logic came from their business background. We were reminded that... This is a business, if something is not making money and is costing you time. That is a clue. Change....freedom... and choice in network marketing is a freedom we sometimes over look and take for granted. We do not have to get it Ok’d or approved. In network marketing along with the Internet marketing ideas, mentors, team affiliates the possibilities are endless.
It is said that even if you’re on the right road, if you do not keep moving you will be run over. Sometimes we get stuck in a rut... a grave would be safer... difference between a rut, and a grave is ...a grave is only 6 ft deep a rut can get go on forever. I agree that a proven system, training program and structure of goals is the surest, quickest and best way to grow a business. You decide which system works best with you.
We have learned when the JOB market gets unsure many professionals and nonprofessionals look for ways to secure or improve their lifestyle. I have been hearing from Bankers, CEO’s, Business Owners, Investors and hourly employees there is NO Job Security, NO Company retirement plan, NO Social Security, NO depending on Wall Street, NO depending on the Corporate world and their 401 K can just disappear, NO depending on Uncle Sam, Stocks, Bonds, Real Estate.
They are searching for additional streams of income. Who has a few years or the money to go back to school to get a degree to increase chances of a promotion? That is where network marketing has its advantages. No degree required, no previous experience required, all you need is a WHY, an open mind, be teachable, coachable and a company that offers value.
This is what they are NOW saying....
There is a NEW Security Plan... Depending on "YOU" You are in control of your future... find like minded people and together build a future you can be sure of...Find a company that offers value with proven leaders, follow and live your WHY.
We still love NETWORK MARKETING...
Ask for a *FREE* Network Marketing Training Manual... Send request to
Info@Jimdenise.com, put training manual in the subject line.
Jim Dupre and Denise Barone 386.235.6864
Monday, October 13, 2008
Monday Morning Positive Thoughts
Turn on the TV, radio, pick up a magazine, open an e-mail, talk to the banker, the store clerk, listen to conversation in a coffee shop it is everywhere. Everyone is talking or stressing over the world economy, wondering how they will manage. Waiting for " The worst it has ever been"
My heart goes out to these people as I listen to the fear. I have been afraid, as we all have. I have had utilities disconnected, home in foreclosure, faced bankruptcy, no health insurance, a single mother of 5 children to protect and care for and having no experience in the work force.
I also have no fear and a fruitful memories.
This made me think of the Law of Attraction...Do we truly attract what we think and act upon...DO we bring about what we think about? So what could I learn, read, hear, think and then share.... being more a positive than a negative.
So I began reading, asking, then listening. The media are constantly non stop with the negative prediction of the harder, tougher times ahead...
I want to share with you some of my findings...
Worrying and saving money is not as powerful in attracting more than when with a loving heart giving it away to what inspires you or what you are passionate about. This is the same with time, kind words, and smiles.
Planning for your retirement is not as powerful as living with a grateful heart enjoying today without forfeiting things NOW in hopes and plans for a "safe" planned out future that may never come. No one knows how many days we have left.
If you are going to buy, sell or trade stocks, real estate. coins, stamps etc ...understand they are not a sure investments. Make sure you educate yourself do not entrust your money to a stranger. Understand it is on paper or material object and does require constant action. A sure investment would be to invest in yourself and then take constant action on your ideas.
Money is not the root of evil... lack of money is ... Thinking and acting as if we have a lack of it will cause you to act from a mind set of scarcity. Even in difficult times some people are getting wealthy. Could it be they are acting and thinking from a different mind set. One of abundance and not what they media sells us. Warren Buffet says do the opposite of what others are doing. Napoleon Hills Think and Grow Rich... so together Think, DO and Grow Rich...
So when you spend money on practical things like food, shelter, clothing and education do not have an attachment to it just let it go, be grateful you have it to let go. There are people in this country, in this world who would love to be in your shoes. When you spend money on entertainment or other enjoyment, get excited enjoy what you money can buy.This will increase your happiness level and you will attract more abundance and energy .
When the media start wearing you down Look UP ... It is not lonely at the TOP it is just less crowded... You must believe to achieve... so what is it you believe...
always PUSH forward...
P pray
U until
S something
H happens
My heart goes out to these people as I listen to the fear. I have been afraid, as we all have. I have had utilities disconnected, home in foreclosure, faced bankruptcy, no health insurance, a single mother of 5 children to protect and care for and having no experience in the work force.
I also have no fear and a fruitful memories.
This made me think of the Law of Attraction...Do we truly attract what we think and act upon...DO we bring about what we think about? So what could I learn, read, hear, think and then share.... being more a positive than a negative.
So I began reading, asking, then listening. The media are constantly non stop with the negative prediction of the harder, tougher times ahead...
I want to share with you some of my findings...
Worrying and saving money is not as powerful in attracting more than when with a loving heart giving it away to what inspires you or what you are passionate about. This is the same with time, kind words, and smiles.
Planning for your retirement is not as powerful as living with a grateful heart enjoying today without forfeiting things NOW in hopes and plans for a "safe" planned out future that may never come. No one knows how many days we have left.
If you are going to buy, sell or trade stocks, real estate. coins, stamps etc ...understand they are not a sure investments. Make sure you educate yourself do not entrust your money to a stranger. Understand it is on paper or material object and does require constant action. A sure investment would be to invest in yourself and then take constant action on your ideas.
Money is not the root of evil... lack of money is ... Thinking and acting as if we have a lack of it will cause you to act from a mind set of scarcity. Even in difficult times some people are getting wealthy. Could it be they are acting and thinking from a different mind set. One of abundance and not what they media sells us. Warren Buffet says do the opposite of what others are doing. Napoleon Hills Think and Grow Rich... so together Think, DO and Grow Rich...
So when you spend money on practical things like food, shelter, clothing and education do not have an attachment to it just let it go, be grateful you have it to let go. There are people in this country, in this world who would love to be in your shoes. When you spend money on entertainment or other enjoyment, get excited enjoy what you money can buy.This will increase your happiness level and you will attract more abundance and energy .
When the media start wearing you down Look UP ... It is not lonely at the TOP it is just less crowded... You must believe to achieve... so what is it you believe...
always PUSH forward...
P pray
U until
S something
H happens
Thursday, October 9, 2008
Are we headed for still harder times? Everywhere you turn the experts predict that we're in a recession heading a for full blown depression. Times like now we are proud not to be an expert. There are like minded people on both sides of this thought. One common goal of both thoughts is people are looking for additional sources of income. Some for a back up just in case and others who are looking for extra income. Common goal a better brighter future. Network Marketing can be the common avenue. History has shown that network marketing businesses do well in down times or speculative down times. Priorities change in uncertain times, some people still have resources and confidence to purchase products and or services. No matter what product or service your company offers, it is you that they are buying and trust. So ask yourself will my business succeed or fail? Do I have the confidence and know that I can offer a plan to help others reach realistic goals, without a large up front investment or risk. Network marketing is one business that a person can succeed in, even if only having little financial capital, if they are willing to put sweat equity into their dream. A quote from a successful CEO and entrepreneur Jim Dupre, "Plan your day, work your plan and success is only one day away" Do you have a workable plan? We are not suggesting you get a new MLM business, merely asking would you and your team benefit from a new plan for your current MLM business? Even when your on the correct path if you just stand there you will be run over and left behind.
Contact us for a *FREE* Training manual
Jim Dupre & Denise Barone
386.235.6864
www.HomeBasedBizConsultants@Gmail.com
Network Marketing in any Market
Are we headed for still harder times? Everywhere you turn the experts predict that we're in a recession heading a for full blown depression. Times like now we are proud not to be an expert. There are like minded people on both sides of this thought. One common goal of both thoughts is people are looking for additional sources of income. Some for a back up just in case and others who are looking for extra income. Common goal a better brighter future. Network Marketing can be the common avenue. History has shown that network marketing businesses do well in down times or speculative down times. Priorities change in uncertain times, some people still have resources and confidence to purchase products and or services. No matter what product or service your company offers, it is you that they are buying and trust. So ask yourself will my business succeed or fail? Do I have the confidence and know that I can offer a plan to help others reach realistic goals, without a large up front investment or risk. Network marketing is one business that a person can succeed in, even if only having little financial capital, if they are willing to put sweat equity into their dream. A quote from a successful CEO and entrepreneur Jim Dupre, "Plan your day, work your plan and success is only one day away" Do you have a workable plan? We are not suggesting you get a new MLM business, merely asking would you and your team benefit from a new plan for your current MLM business? Even when your on the correct path if you just stand there you will be run over and left behind.
Contact us for a *FREE* Training manual
Jim Dupre & Denise Barone
386.235.6864
HomebasedBizConsultants@Gmail.com
Contact us for a *FREE* Training manual
Jim Dupre & Denise Barone
386.235.6864
HomebasedBizConsultants@Gmail.com
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